A planning guide for the school year: when to start your child care search, how to compare options, and how to prep pickup, homework, and activities.
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Before and After School Child Care: 6 Practical Solutions
The new school year is around the corner which means it’s time to nail down your before and after school child care. From morning drop-offs to shuttling kids to after school activities, the back to school hustle can leave you juggling a lot of different schedules. Not sure what kind of after school child care is right for you? Have no fear! We have 6 before and after school babysitter and nanny solutions that will help your family get an A+ this school year.
1. The Full-Time Nanny
Do you work full-time? Need a helping hand before and after school? Have a little one in school and one still at home? A full-time nanny may be just what you need to cover all your bases. This option not only provides a full-day of care, but also ensures a comfortable home environment for your children. Nanny-finding sites like UrbanSitter conveniently allow you to search or post a job for this type of “split shift” schedule.
Pro-tip: Check our blog post for suggested questions to ask when interviewing potential nannies.
2. The Carpool-Driving Sitter
Maybe your mornings start early and you need help getting the kids ready and dropped off on time to school. Or, maybe you can’t leave the office early enough to pick them up. Problem solved! Book a carpool driving sitter. During the summer, this service can also be beneficial for getting kids to and from summer camps or summer enrichment activities. This is a great option especially in school districts with limited transportation options.
Pro-tip: Use UrbanSitter’s search filter to find sitters ‘willing to drive kids’ in your car or theirs.
3. The Homework Tutor
Let’s be real, school-age children have A LOT of homework these days and sometimes our kids need a little extra help. Find and book a sitter who’s ready to hit the books after school and provide quality homework assistance. This is particularly useful for 1st grade and older children needing extra academic support. Such sitters can also engage kids in educational activities to reinforce learning in a structured environment after school.
Pro-tip: Sites like UrbanSitter make it easy to search for sitters by the grade levels and subjects they teach or tutor.
4. The After-School Sitter
Soccer practice, music lessons, dance class, or even just a trip to the park can be hard to juggle when you have more than one kid, errands to run, or when your work schedule keeps you late. Have no fear, an after-school sitter can help you feel like you are in more than one place at the same time. This option is perfect for parents who need a structured environment for their children after school.
Pro-tip: If you aren’t finding any sitters to cover every day of the week, consider splitting your job into two jobs with a sitter for Monday-Wednesday-Fridays and another for Tuesday-Thursdays.
5. The Last-Minute Sitter
When the kids have an unexpected day off from school or their summer camp program or your usual nanny calls in sick, you’ll need access to a last-minute sitter for backup child care.
Pro-tip: Download UrbanSitter’s child care-finding app for free for access to last-minute child care providers.
6. After School Programs
Some schools offer after school programs to give parents a few extra hours of child care beyond the school day. If your school doesn’t offer an after-school care program, many local YMCAs and community centers offer affordable school-age child care programs. These programs for children often include structured activities, physical activity, and a fun environment to keep kids engaged.
Pro-tip: Check out your local YMCA camps or recreation center for quality child care programs that offer both enrichment activities and physical activity.
Before and After School Child Care, Solved!
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7 Tips For Hiring An After School Nanny
Hiring an after school nanny is a big decision, and it usually lands in the busiest part of your year. A clear process makes it easier and gets you a better hire.
These seven tips walk you through what to do before, during, and after your search, so you can move quickly without cutting corners on safety, fit, or the things you’ll wish you’d talked through up front.
In this guide
- 7 tips for hiring a great after school nanny
- Where to find an after school nanny or sitter
- After school nanny hiring FAQs
7 tips for hiring a great after school nanny
These seven tips can help you hire more confidently before the school year starts.
1. Write a clear job description
A detailed job description does a lot of the work for you. When candidates know exactly what you need, you waste less time on the wrong fits.
Include:
- The hours and days you need help
- The age of your kids
- Hourly rate and whether you’ll cover gas or mileage
- Whether you need driving, homework help, light meal prep, or other extras
- Whether a background check is required
On UrbanSitter, our job posting form lets you tick boxes for the type of help you need (full-time, afternoon, school pickup, drop-off, driver). Check current after school rates in your area so your offer is competitive.
2. Be realistic about the tasks
A great after school nanny is not a stand-in for a housekeeper or a personal chef. Start with the basics: school pickup, snack time, homework support, and supervised play or activities.
Once you have a rhythm with the basics, you can talk through adding dinner prep, laundry, or other tasks. Be honest about how long each one takes so the schedule lines up with reality.
3. Sort out transportation early
Will your nanny meet your child at the bus stop, or do you need a driver who can shuttle the kids from school to activities?
If driving is part of the job, confirm:
- A valid license and a safe driving record
- A reliable car, or your willingness to lend the family car
- A plan for gas reimbursement or mileage
UrbanSitter offers an optional driving record check on nannies for a small fee.
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4. Plan for flexibility
Work doesn’t always end at five. If your schedule shifts, look for a nanny who can stay later when needed.
And if one nanny can’t cover every afternoon, split the job between two trusted nannies. The bonus: you always have backup.
5. Match on values, not just availability
Your nanny spends hours each week with your kids, making meals, supervising homework, and enforcing house rules. You want someone whose instincts feel like a natural extension of yours.
In the interview, ask how they’d handle a sibling argument, a homework meltdown, or a quiet kid who just wants to read alone. Specific stories tell you more than a resume can. Trust your gut on fit.
6. Run a background check
A background check is non-negotiable for anyone who’ll be alone with your kids. Cover criminal history, employment history, and any state-specific requirements. Take red flags seriously.
On UrbanSitter, every UrbanSitter nanny completes a background check each year through a third-party service, an added layer of confidence on top of your own screening.
7. Call references
Calling references can feel like a formality, but it is where you learn what people are like to work with day to day.
Ask about reliability, communication, how they handled tough moments with the kids, and whether the family would hire them again. A specific story tells you more than a star rating.
Once your hire is locked in, our after school babysitter guide walks through how to set up the working arrangement so the first days go smoothly.
Where to find an after school nanny or sitter
The best after school nannies book up before the school year starts, so it pays to begin a few weeks early. UrbanSitter helps you find after school nannies and sitters reviewed by other parents in your neighborhood, including nannies your friends or local school families have already hired.
After school nanny hiring FAQs
How do you hire an after school nanny?
Start with a clear job description that covers hours, rate, transportation, and any specific responsibilities. Post the role on a trusted nanny-finding site, screen candidates against your needs, run a background check, and call references. Most families can go from posting to hire in two to four weeks.
What questions should I ask in an after school nanny interview?
Ask about experience with your child’s age range, how they’d handle common after school scenarios (homework refusal, sibling arguments, an unexpected late arrival), their approach to discipline, and any specific logistics like driving or meal prep. Specific stories beat general answers. For a deeper list, see our guide to nanny interview questions.
How much does an after school nanny cost?
Babysitting rates average $26.24 per hour for one child and $29.87 for two, as of January 2026, based on UrbanSitter booking data. Rates run higher when the role includes regular driving or a longer weekly commitment. See our after school care costs guide for city-by-city details.
Should I run a background check on an after school nanny?
Yes. Anyone who’ll be alone with your kids should pass a background check covering criminal history, employment history, and any state-specific requirements. On UrbanSitter, every UrbanSitter nanny completes a background check each year. Learn more about our background check process.
When should I start looking for an after school nanny?
Start your search a few weeks before the school year begins. The best nannies tend to be booked up before the first day, so beginning early gives you time to interview and find the right fit.
How do you check references for an after school nanny?
Ask each candidate for two or three recent references, then call (don’t text) and ask specific questions: how long they worked with the family, whether they were reliable, how they handled tough moments, and whether the family would hire them again. Listen for specifics, not generic praise.
Find your after school nanny now with UrbanSitter
Still figuring out your school year child care plan? Our back-to-school child care guide walks through the options and considerations.
When you are ready to start, find an after school nanny near you and compare experience, schedules, and reviews from local families.
After School Babysitter Guide for Parents
School lets out at 3:00 pm. Your workday doesn’t. For many families, the hours between school pickup and dinner are the hardest part of the week to cover.
That’s where an after school babysitter comes in. Whether you need school pickup, homework help, or someone to run the afternoon routine until you get home, the right sitter makes weekdays far more manageable.
In this guide
- What does an after school babysitter do?
- How to find an after school babysitter
- 5 essentials for a successful after school babysitting arrangement
- How much does an after school babysitter cost?
- After school babysitter FAQs
What does an after school babysitter do?
An after school babysitter cares for your child between school dismissal and the end of the workday. Most families book help for 2 to 5 hours on weekday afternoons.
Typical responsibilities include:
- School or bus pickup
- Snacks and light meal prep
- Homework or reading support
- Playtime and supervision
- Driving to sports or activities
- Helping kids settle into their afternoon routine
Some families need help a few days a week. Others book consistent weekday coverage all school year.
If you’re weighing other types of school-year care, our guide to before and after school child care walks through the options.
How to find an after school babysitter
The best after school babysitters often book up before the school year starts, so it helps to begin your search early.
Start by thinking through:
- Your schedule and pickup times
- Whether your sitter needs to drive
- Your child’s age and personality
- How many days a week you need help
- Whether you want homework support or tutoring
Look for sitters experienced with children in your child’s age group. Reviews from local parents help you narrow the options.
UrbanSitter helps families find after school babysitters nearby, including sitters hired and reviewed by parents in your area.
Hiring for the first time? These tips for hiring an after school sitter help you feel prepared before interviews begin.
Still mapping out the school year? Our back-to-school child care guide walks through the full planning workflow.
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5 essentials for a successful after school babysitting arrangement
A smooth afternoon routine starts with clear expectations. These five conversations get your family and your sitter on the same page before the first day.
1. Set the schedule and hourly rate
Talk through exact pickup times, expected end times, and what happens if work runs late. Agree on the hourly rate up front, including what extra or last-minute hours cost, so the budget is clear from day one.
See average babysitting rates by city for a benchmark before you settle on a number.
2. Discuss driving responsibilities
If your sitter will handle pickup or activities, go over driving expectations early. Confirm they have a valid license, experience driving children, and a safe driving history. UrbanSitter offers an optional driving record check for sitters who drive.
Then agree on the details:
- Car seats and booster seats
- School pickup procedures
- Gas reimbursement
- Phone use while driving
3. Talk through snacks and meals
Afternoons go more smoothly when kids know what to expect. Let your sitter know:
- Which snacks are okay
- Whether dinner prep is part of the job
- Any allergies or food restrictions
- Whether your child eats before or after activities
Simple instructions keep the afternoon calm for everyone.
4. Be clear about homework help
Some families want light homework supervision. Others want more hands-on academic support. Spell out:
- How involved you want the sitter to be
- Reading or study expectations
- Screen-time rules during homework
- Whether you want a sitter who also tutors
For older kids, academic support can matter as much as pickup coverage.
5. Prepare your sitter before day one
A little preparation helps your sitter step in with confidence. Share:
- Emergency contacts
- Activity schedules
- School pickup instructions
- Wi-Fi passwords and house rules
- Where to find snacks, supplies, and sports gear
The more organized the routine feels, the easier afternoons become for your child and your sitter.
How much does an after school babysitter cost?
After school babysitting costs depend on your city, your schedule, the number of children, and added responsibilities like driving or tutoring.
As of January 2026, babysitting rates average $26.24 per hour for one child and $29.87 for two children nationally, based on UrbanSitter booking data.
Many families use an after school babysitter for 10 to 20 hours a week during the school year. Jobs that include regular driving, homework help, or a long-term commitment may cost more. Compare local rates in our guide to after school care costs.
After school babysitter FAQs
What does an after school babysitter do?
An after school babysitter cares for your child from the end of the school day until a parent is home. The role usually includes school pickup, a snack, homework or reading time, play and supervision, and sometimes driving to activities. Most after school babysitting runs 2 to 5 hours on a weekday afternoon.
How many hours does an after school babysitter work?
After school babysitting usually runs from school dismissal until a parent gets home, often 2 to 5 hours a day and 10 to 20 hours a week. Many families book specific days, alternating weeks, or coverage that fills the gap when a school program ends early.
Can an after school babysitter drive my kids to activities?
Yes, many babysitters drive kids to sports, lessons, and other activities. Before hiring a sitter to drive, confirm they have a valid license and a safe driving history, agree on car seat use and driving rules, and discuss a gas stipend. UrbanSitter offers an optional driving record check on caregivers.
Can an after school babysitter help with homework?
Yes. Many after school babysitters help kids settle into homework, keep up daily reading, or practice early skills like letters and numbers. Be specific about how hands-on you want them to be, and for older kids who need subject help, a sitter who also tutors can give more focused support.
How much does an after school babysitter cost?
As of January 2026, babysitting rates average $26.24 per hour for one child nationally, based on UrbanSitter booking data, and vary by city. After school rates can run higher when the role includes regular driving or a consistent weekly commitment.
How do I find a good after school babysitter?
Start a few weeks before the school year begins, and look for caregivers experienced with your child’s age, comfortable with pickup and driving if you need it, and available for your schedule. Read reviews from other local families, and talk through hours, driving, snacks, and homework before the first day.
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Tips for Lining Up College Students for Summer Childcare
In a few short weeks or days, school will be out for the summer and you likely have different summer childcare needs than you have now. You may need full-time help, a regular sitter for part-time care, or maybe just a reliable bevy of sitters to call when you need some time to yourself during the school-free months ahead.
There are many excellent sources for summer childcare, including nannies, camps, daycare or mother’s helpers, but college students – those returning home for their summer break or local students sticking around to take classes or to work – are one of your top resources for summertime babysitting. Here’s why students work well as babysitters and how to line them up now so that your summer childcare needs are covered well before the season starts.
Why College Students are often Fantastic Babysitters
- College students typically have some babysitting experience and are motivated to earn extra money to help pay for their education and living expenses. In addition to childcare experience, they are likely to be CPR certified, have completed a first aid class or studied a bit of early childhood education.
- Students taking summer classes may have a hard time finding a part-time job that fits around their class load. Babysitting is in many ways the ideal job for them, as they can typically create a babysitting schedule that works with their class schedule.
- In addition to being available, responsible and ready to earn, they are often vibrant young people with lots of interests, hobbies and experiences to share. They may be able to tutor, help sharpen sports’ skills, or help little kids prepare for kindergarten and bigger kids stay sharp while away from school. Your children could benefit from their skills and mentorship.
- There’s rarely much of a commute for a student babysitter, especially if you have a campus nearby or are employing a neighbor’s child who is returning home from college for the summer.
- Students often have plenty of backup if they have a conflict or if they are sick when they are committed to babysit. If they are interested in babysitting to make extra money, their friends likely are, too. Although you need someone who is dependable, it’s nice to have access to backup sitters when you need them.
How to Find and Hire Students for Summer Childcare
Sold on the idea of hiring a college student to help with summer child care and wondering how to score these ideal sitters before their summer is spoken for? Here are a few tips for lining them up now:
- Reach out to sitters on UrbanSitter who attend local colleges or who live nearby and inquire about their summer plans. It’s likely they will be as anxious to nail down summer work as you are to line up care for your kids.
- Post a job on UrbanSitter that outlines your needs. This is especially helpful if you have a need for a full-time summer sitter or for someone to babysit on a regular basis. Local sitters will see your request, as will students returning home and looking for nearby work.
- Check local college job boards for sitters advertising for summer work or post a job request. Join local Facebook or Google groups where sitters may post looking for summer babysitting opportunities.
- Talk with friends and neighbors to inquire about students returning home for the summer and their potential interest in babysitting. Encourage these sitters to join UrbanSitter to post their availability and profiles so booking is quick and easy.
With a little advance planning, you can quickly and easily find an excellent summer sitter well before summer arrives. Need help finding your summer babysitter? Join UrbanSitter.
How Much Does a Nanny Cost? (2026)
Considering various child care options is a natural part of parenting, and if you’ve already narrowed down your choices and decided that hiring a nanny is the best fit for your family, you may be asking yourself, “How much does a nanny cost?” It’s crucial to understand the costs involved in any child care decision to ensure it aligns with your budget and provides the care your little ones deserve.
Let’s dive into live in and part-time nanny costs and explore the factors that influence them, helping you make an informed choice and plan accordingly for this invaluable investment in your child’s well-being.
At a glance:
What to include in nanny cost calculations
Average nanny rates by U.S. city
Do I have to pay nanny taxes?
Child care tax credits
Paying nanny insurance
Payroll options
The basics: What is a nanny?
A nanny is not just a caregiver you hire; they become an esteemed member of your family. When you welcome a nanny into your home, they typically work full-time, under a formal contract with consistent and regular hours. Their primary duty is ensuring your child’s well-being and fulfilling the responsibilities you’ve agreed upon. Over time, nannies become very involved in your child’s growth and development, playing a crucial role in their journey through childhood.
What to include in nanny cost calculations
Factors such as your geographical location, the scope of responsibilities, education level, additional certifications, and the level of experience they bring to the position should all be included when estimating the average cost of a nanny. For example, a live-in nanny salary estimate might include factors like room and board compared to a part-time nanny. Families also may need to pay more for a nanny with specialized training or education, such as a bachelor’s or master’s degree in early childhood education. The most common costs to include in nanny pay are:
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- Hourly rate/salary
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- Overtime pay/vacation time
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- Annual raises
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- Taxes
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- Child care tax credits
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- Insurance
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- Payroll
How nanny costs vary by job scope
- Part-time nanny cost: A part-time nanny typically works for a set number of hours per week, which can range from a few hours a day to several days a week. The cost of a part-time nanny can vary widely depending on factors such as your location, ages of children, experience, and the number of hours they work.
- Full-time nanny cost: A full-time or live-out nanny provides consistent and regular childcare throughout the week, typically for a standard 40-hour workweek. Full-time nannies offer greater flexibility and stability for families with demanding work schedules or multiple children.
- Live in nanny cost: A live-in nanny resides in your home and provides around-the-clock care. This arrangement is ideal for families who need constant childcare support, especially if parents have irregular or demanding work schedules. The cost of a live-in for a host family nanny includes their salary and accommodations.
What is the average nanny salary?
According to UrbanSitter’s latest 2026 data, the average nanny hourly rate nationwide is $26.24/hr, with the average nanny salary being $55,000. With a typical payment schedule, the nanny will get paid weekly or biweekly. In addition, they will receive paid time off (sick and vacation time). In regions with a higher cost of living, the average rate is typically higher compared to those in lower-cost areas.
Average Nanny Rate by U.S. City
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Area/U.S. City |
Hourly Nanny Rate |
Annual Nanny Salary |
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National |
$26.24 |
$55,000 |
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$20.78 |
$43,000 |
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$23.39 |
$49,000 |
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$25.52 |
$53,000 |
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$23.56 |
$49,000 |
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$22.21 |
$46,000 |
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$19.98 |
$42,000 |
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$19.25 |
$40,000 |
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$24.05 |
$50,000 |
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$27.22 |
$57,000 |
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$21.69 |
$45,000 |
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$21.16 |
$44,000 |
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$26.11 |
$54,000 |
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$21.15 |
$44,000 |
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$21.35 |
$44,000 |
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$23.43 |
$49,000 |
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$26.03 |
$54,000 |
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$25.38 |
$53,000 |
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$21.68 |
$45,000 |
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$20.10 |
$42,000 |
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$20.59 |
$43,000 |
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$23.98 |
$50,000 |
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$22.23 |
$46,000 |
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$23.90 |
$50,000 |
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$22.79 |
$47,000 |
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$18.21 |
$38,000 |
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$24.39 |
$51,000 |
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$29.63 |
$62,000 |
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$27.70 |
$58,000 |
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$21.26 |
$44,000 |
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$23.95 |
$50,000 |
Keep in mind the cost of a nanny and compensation package varies greatly based on:
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- Location
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- Number of children
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- Driving the kids
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- Average overtime
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- Additional tasks the nanny is responsible for
There are a lot of advantages to having a nanny and paying a higher rate over other supplemental, short-term child care options. Some of the advantages are that a nanny generally has more experience, is more flexible (can come early or stay late – additional compensation may be required depending on the contract), and your child gets one-on-one attention on a routine basis.
Related: UrbanSitter’s Guide to Pay Rates
Taxes: Do I have to pay nanny taxes?
Nanny taxes are an aspect you’ll want to consider in the overall cost. According to the IRS, you become an employer when you hire a full-time nanny (domestic worker). Therefore, you’ll need to apply for an employer identification number (EIN).
As an employer of a household employee, the Internal Revenue Service (IRS) will require you to pay a Federal Employment tax if you pay your nanny more than $2,700 per year (as of 2024). In some cases there are exceptions, so make sure to review those outlined by the IRS with your tax preparer.
The employer and the domestic worker each pay a portion of the tax. An employer can choose to withhold the nanny’s share and pay it for them with those withholdings. In addition, if your nanny earns more than $1,000 a quarter (as of 2024), then social security and Medicare taxes must be paid/withheld. Please note: We are not licensed tax professionals. We encourage you to reach out to your tax professional for any questions or advice.
Child & Dependent Care Tax Credits: Can I get a tax credit?
One way to offset the cost of a babysitter or nanny is to take advantage of the child-care tax credit.
The childcare credit is a percentage of the money you spend on childcare for children under 13. This applies if you are hiring someone to care for them while you are working or looking for a job. This means you cannot take advantage of the credit if you are hiring a nanny so you can take care of personal errands, run to the gym or simply enjoy some well-deserved time to yourself.
As of 2024, you can count up to $3,000 in expenses for one qualifying child or up to $6,000 in expenses for two or more qualifying dependents. The amount of the tax credit is based on your adjusted gross income and can range from 20%-35% of your expenses. To receive childcare tax breaks, you must include the care provider on your tax form. You also need to report the nanny’s wages and pay the necessary employment taxes. Please note: We are not licensed tax professionals. We encourage you to reach out to your tax professional for any questions or advice.
Insurance: Do I need to pay insurance for my nanny?
According to the experts, the answer is “yes” and “no” depending on where you live. Multiple types of insurance exist, including health insurance, workers’ compensation insurance, employment practices liability insurance, and auto insurance.
Health Insurance: Most employers will pay into health insurance for their nanny, similar to what small businesses pay.
Workers Compensation Insurance: Most states require you to pay for a policy. This covers you if your nanny has an accident on the job. You’ll need to check if your state requires it.
Employment Practices Liability Insurance (ELPI): This insurance covers you (the employer) in case you are sued by your employee. Many employers are able to have ELPI added to their workers compensation plan.
Auto Insurance: This will depend on if your nanny is your driving your car, driving their car, how often they drive your kids, etc. Since it varies by state, be sure to check with your auto insurance company. Something else to consider is it may be necessary to increase your liability insurance. Lastly, if the nanny is driving their car, you would reimburse them for mileage at $0.67 a mile, according to the IRS.
Payroll: What’s the best way to pay my nanny?
Wondering how to pay your nanny legally? Many families prefer to use a payroll service to process payment to their nanny. A nanny payroll service pays the nanny directly, deducting taxes and withholdings from their paycheck before giving it to them. A payroll service such as NannyLane can also take care of tax filings, year-end documents, and pay stubs/receipts, which saves you time and takes one item of your to do list.
Does the cost of a nanny fit your budget?
Ultimately, if a nanny is the best fit for your family’s lifestyle and the cost of a nanny works for your family’s child care budget, then it’s the right choice for you. If not, a babysitter or a daycare option might be a better fit, here’s a quick comparison between a nanny and babysitter and a look at nanny cost vs. daycare.
Please note that UrbanSitter is a platform for families and caregivers to connect. We are not an agency and do not employ caregivers. All members are individually responsible for any applicable tax, withholding or reporting. We are not licensed tax professionals. We encourage individuals to reach out to a local tax professional for any questions about tax preparations.
What should I look for in a babysitter?
Finding and hiring the right babysitter can be unnerving for parents. While we’d all like to leave our kids in the kind and capable hands of Mary Poppins, the reality is that you’re not going to find a sitter who “has it all.”
My advice to you is to take time to think about the skills, characteristics and “extras” that are most important to you, your spouse and your kids. Set up a formal interview with the sitter, or try a “working interview,” where you can get errands done at home while the sitter watches your kids for the first time.
Here are a few questions to ask yourself when meeting a babysitter:
1. Do you feel comfortable and safe leaving your kids with them?
If there’s anything about the sitter that makes you nervous or uncomfortable then he or she is not a good fit. Safety is every parent’s #1 priority, so make sure you discuss this with your sitter. Do you want someone who is Red Cross certified? Does your sitter know CPR and first aid? Does he or she know how to administer an Epipen if your kids have severe allergies? Do you have a pool, or another feature in your home that requires special precautions? Here’s a good list of safety guidelines, that you may even choose to share with your sitter.
2. Do they get good reviews from your kids?
If your kids are too young to communicate with you, then this one is hard to judge. But, if they’re able to tell you that it wasn’t fun, then it’s probably not a great sign. Kids have pretty good spidey sense, and at the end of the day, we all want to hear our kids sing the praises of their sitter.
3. Do they speak another language fluently?
If you want your child to learn another language, having a sitter speak to them only in that language is a really effective way for them to learn!
4. Do they speak English as their first language?
On the flip side, I’ve heard that if kids are struggling with language, some parents want to make sure that their sitter’s first language is English.
5. Will they help clean up?
Who doesn’t want a sitter who keeps the house clean and tidy, right? But what you need to decide is whether this is really a top priority – and it might be. But, if your sitter meets all your other expectations—and the kids are safe and having fun–then is 10-15 minutes of tidying up when you get home worth it?
6. Will they do laundry?
If coming home to clean laundry makes your day, then find a sitter who’s willing to squeeze it in. Also, some sitters are willing to do children’s laundry, but not yours, so make sure you discuss this up front.
7. Will they run errands?
I know this can be a sticky issue for sitters, so again, just make sure you talk about it up front. You might think “how hard is it for them to grab my dry cleaning on their way home from the park?” But, in their minds they’ve been hired to watch kids, not run errands – and might feel like they’re being taken advantage of it you casually ask them to do it as you’re leaving the house. Others may welcome the opportunity to get out and about!
8. Will they take the kids outside?
Some sitters are really comfortable getting kids in strollers (or cars), packing up snacks, slathering on the sunscreen and heading out for some fun in the sun. Others might feel safer staying inside.
9. Do they love arts-and-crafts projects?
Do you love coming home to find artwork from your kids? Some sitters pride themselves on this. You might need to pay them a little extra for supplies if they really like to get fancy.
10. Will they spoil your kids?
Maybe you don’t leave your kids with a sitter very often and you want them to think it’s a treat. So, find a sitter who will make rice-crispy treats with them every time.
11. Are they able to follow your discipline style?
If you have strict rules that you want your sitter to follow, make sure they are comfortable with them upfront. Some sitters might not feel comfortable letting a child “cry-it-out” or “do time” on the naughty step.
12. Do they like helping kids with homework?
Homework is probably above and beyond the call of duty for most sitters. But some may have a particular passion for academics, or may even be studying to be a teacher. In this case, it’s reasonable to ask them to help guide your children with their school assignments.
13. Are they a type-A, just like you?
If you like things just-so, then it’s probably good to find a sitter who sees eye-to-eye with you, or can follow instructions well. But, keep your expectations in check…some sitters are just not going to remember that the wooden knives don’t go in the dishwasher!
14. Can they cook or bake?
Want to come home to a gourmet meal at the end of each work day? How about batch of brownies at the end of an evening? Some sitters love the opportunity to play chef for the families they work for and even find fun ways to include the kids in the process–like a grocery store scavenger hunt for recipes, creating hand-made menus or setting the table in a special way.
There are and endless number of considerations to think about. In my opinion though, only #1 and #2 are non-negotiable. So, pick the top 3-5 things that are most important for your family and let the rest go!
Just remember that no matter what your “wish list” looks like, you must communicate your expectations clearly with the babysitter. Even when you think what you’re asking for is obvious, sitters appreciate clear instructions. If you don’t tell them what you expect, you’re just going to drive yourself crazy complaining about things like, “I just wish she’d pick up the toys at the end of the day” or “Why didn’t she take them out for some fresh air?”
Once you hire your sitter, keep the lines of communication open. Give—and accept—both positive and constructive feedback to ensure you, your kids, and your sitter maintain a happy and healthy relationship!
What Is a Nanny Agency?
Finding dependable child care can be a challenge for many families. A nanny agency offers one solution of matching parents with qualified nannies. But is it the right choice for your family? Let’s explore what nanny agencies do, their benefits, and some considerations to help you decide if this approach aligns with your needs.
What is a Nanny Agency?
A nanny agency is a professional service that connects families with qualified nannies for various childcare roles, such as full-time, part-time, temporary, or live-in and live-out nannies.
Acting as recruitment agencies, they handle tasks like background checks, reference checks, and employment contracts, simplifying the often daunting hiring process. The International Nanny Association (INA) or the Association of Premier Nanny Agencies (APNA) is an excellent resource for families seeking guidance on selecting reputable agencies.
How Nanny Agencies Work
Finding a nanny through an agency is designed to simplify what can often feel overwhelming. While specific procedures vary between agencies, here’s an overview of how the journey typically unfolds:
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Initial Consultation
Families share their childcare needs, preferences, and household dynamics with the agency. This is where details like whether you need a live-in or live-out nanny, a night nanny, or help with newborn care are discussed. -
Recruitment and Screening
Nanny agencies conduct a rigorous screening process to identify suitable candidates. This includes background checks, reference checks, and interviews. Many agencies also ensure potential candidates meet legal requirements and have verified experience as childcare providers. -
Matching and Trial Period
The agency presents a list of nanny candidates based on the family’s preferences. After interviews and sometimes a trial period, a match is finalized. -
Ongoing Support
Many reputable agencies provide post-placement support, such as advice on employment contracts, replacement nannies if needed, and assistance fostering a smooth nanny-family relationship.
For families new to this process, organizations like the Association of Premier Nanny Agencies (APNA) offer resources to guide you in selecting a reputable agency.
Related: How to Find a Nanny: A Step-by-Step Guide
Pros of Using a Nanny Agency
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Thorough Screening
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Time Savings
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Tailored Services
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Professional Expertise
Agencies understand the nanny industry and offer valuable support, from legal employment guidance to ensuring a smooth transition for both families and nannies.
Cons of Using a Nanny Agency
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Higher Costs
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Not Always a Perfect Match
While agencies work hard to find the right fit, mismatches can still happen. The good news is that many reputable agencies have policies to provide a replacement nanny if the initial placement doesn’t work out.
Related: The Ultimate Guide to Nanny Shares
How to Choose a Reputable Nanny Agency
Choosing the right nanny agency starts with checking their credentials—look for affiliations with organizations like the International Nanny Association (INA) or the Association of Premier Nanny Agencies (APNA) to ensure they meet industry standards. Transparency is key, so ask about placement fees, replacement policies, and what they expect from nanny candidates. Don’t forget to read reviews or ask other families for recommendations to understand their reputation. If you’re looking for something specific, like a night nanny or a family assistant, ensure the agency has experience in those areas. These steps can help you feel confident about finding an agency that fits your family’s needs.
Alternatives to Nanny Agencies
If a nanny agency doesn’t seem like the right fit for your family, there are several alternative childcare solutions to consider:
- Websites and Apps: Platforms like UrbanSitter allow parents to connect with local nannies and babysitters directly. You can browse profiles, read reviews, and communicate with caregivers, giving you greater control over the hiring process.
- Community-Based Resources: Local organizations such as community centers, churches, or parent groups often host childcare networks, babysitting co-ops, or family-focused events. These options can be a more affordable, community-driven alternative to formal agencies.
- Word-of-Mouth Referrals: Personal recommendations from friends, family members, or colleagues can be a reliable way to find trusted caregivers. These referrals often come with the added reassurance of built-in trust.
- Nanny Shares: Sharing a nanny with another family can be a cost-effective option while fostering children’s social interaction.
While nanny agencies can simplify the search and offer peace of mind, alternatives like online platforms or community resources provide more hands-on control and customization. Whatever you choose, the key is finding the right fit for your household’s needs.
Cost of Hiring Through a Nanny Agency: What to Expect
Hiring through a nanny agency can be a great option when you’re looking for reliable childcare. These agencies relieve the stress of finding and vetting the right caregiver, offering peace of mind and professional support. But what does it actually cost to work with a nanny agency? Here, we’ll break down the typical fees, explain what they cover, and help you decide if this route fits your family’s needs and budget.
Why Families Choose Nanny Agencies
Let’s face it: finding the perfect nanny can feel overwhelming. From sifting through resumes to conducting interviews and running background checks, the process is time-consuming and often stressful. Nanny agencies simplify this process by doing the legwork for you. They recruit, screen, and match caregivers to your family’s unique requirements, ensuring you get a trusted, qualified professional.
With services like this, it’s no surprise that hiring through an agency comes with associated costs. However, for many families, convenience and assurance are worth the investment.
Breaking Down Nanny Agency Costs
If you’ve been researching nanny agencies, you’ve probably noticed that pricing can vary significantly. Here’s a closer look at the most common fees you’ll encounter:
Placement Fees: These are the big ones. Placement fees are what you pay for the agency to find, vet, and match you with a nanny. According to the International Nanny Association (INA), they can range from $800 to $10,000, depending on the agency, the nanny’s experience, and the role’s specifics (like live-in or specialized care). Most agencies calculate placement fees as either a flat rate or a percentage of the nanny’s annual salary, typically between 10% and 20%.
Registration or Application Fees: Many agencies charge a non-refundable fee when you first sign up for their services. This fee, often between $100 and $500, helps cover the administrative costs of starting your search. Think of it as a commitment fee.
Ongoing Service Fees: Some agencies offer additional services, such as ongoing support, training, or access to a replacement pool of nannies. These services may be charged monthly or annually, depending on your support level.
Specialized Service Costs: You may encounter additional fees if you’re looking for a nanny with unique qualifications—like a newborn care specialist, bilingual caregiver, or someone with extensive tutoring experience. Similarly, international placements or relocation support might cost extra.
Hidden Costs to Watch Out For
While most nanny agencies are upfront about pricing, there can still be a few surprises. You might see higher fees if you’re hiring a nanny with specialized skills—like a caregiver for a child with medical needs or a tutor for older kids. Backup or emergency care can also come with premium rates, especially if you need last-minute coverage. And if you extend your nanny’s contract or need to replace a caregiver, some agencies charge renewal or replacement fees.
It’s always a good idea to ask for a detailed cost breakdown before committing so you can budget accordingly and avoid any unexpected charges.
Related: Is a Babysitter Agency Right for You?
Do Nanny Agencies Help with Taxes?
Yes, many nanny agencies offer basic tax guidance to ensure you stay compliant. They can help you set up payroll and explain your responsibilities as an employer, like withholding Social Security, Medicare, and unemployment taxes for your nanny. However, agencies don’t usually provide complete tax services, so you may need to consult a tax professional for more complicated questions.
For families hiring a nanny as a W-2 employee (the most common arrangement), the agency can point you in the right direction for managing payroll and ensuring tax compliance. But if you’re hiring an independent contractor (1099), you’ll need to take additional steps to meet legal requirements. If tax assistance is not provided by the agency, a payroll service can also take care of tax filings, year-end documents, and pay stubs/receipts.
For more on tax obligations, visit the IRS’s Household Employer Tax Guide.
Comparing Nanny Agencies to Other Childcare Options
When budgeting for childcare, consider how nanny agency costs compare to other solutions:
| Option | Pros | Cons |
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| Hiring Independently | Lower costs; complete control of the process. | Time-intensive; requires managing payroll. |
| Babysitter Apps | Affordable and flexible. | Less thorough screening and matching. |
| Nanny Agencies | Convenience; rigorous vetting. | Higher costs due to premium services. |
Related: How much does a nanny cost?
Tips for Budgeting for a Nanny Agency
If you’re considering hiring through a nanny agency, here are some tips to help you manage the costs:
- Shop Around: Not all agencies charge the same fees or offer the same services. Compare a few options to find the one that best suits your needs and budget.
- Ask About Payment Plans: Some agencies offer flexible payment options to help make their services more accessible.
- Weigh the Long-Term Value: Remember, this isn’t just a financial investment—it’s an investment in your family’s well-being. A great nanny can make a world of difference in your daily life.
Does the Cost of a Nanny Agency Fit Your Budget?
If hiring through a nanny agency feels right for your family and budget, this option offers peace of mind and professional expertise. If not, hiring independently or a daycare option might be a better fit, here’s a quick comparison between a nanny and babysitter and a look at nanny cost vs. daycare.
Please note that UrbanSitter is a platform for families and caregivers to connect. We are not an agency and do not employ caregivers. All members are individually responsible for any applicable tax, withholding, or reporting. We are not licensed tax professionals. We encourage individuals to contact a local tax professional for any questions about tax preparations.
Nanny vs. Daycare for Infants
Choosing child care for your little one is a big decision, and if you’re torn between a nanny vs. daycare for your infant, you’re not alone. Both options offer unique benefits, but which fits your family best? In this guide, we’ll break down the pros and cons of each choice, from costs and flexibility to socialization and one-on-one attention. Whether you’re looking for personalized care or a structured environment, we’ll help you make the best choice for your baby’s needs.
Cost and Expenses
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Nanny: When comparing nanny cost vs daycare, hiring an infant nanny often involves higher expenses than a daycare facility. This is especially true when you factor in hourly rates, taxes, and potentially paying a nanny agency finders fee. See our full nanny cost breakdown, including the average salary by U.S. city.
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Daycare: Daycare costs can vary based on the location, reputation, and type of care offered at the childcare center. While it may be more budget-friendly than a nanny for a single child, the cost of daycare can add up if you need extended hours or have multiple children. Family daycares, typically run out of a home, might offer a more affordable alternative to larger daycare centers.
Which is more affordable? Likely daycare.
Personalized and Individualized Care
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Nanny: A nanny provides one-on-one care, allowing for a highly personalized experience tailored to your infant’s needs. This individualized attention can help your child reach key developmental milestones faster, as the caregiver focuses solely on your infant’s growth and activities to build language and motor skills.
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Daycare: In a daycare setting, the caregiver ratio tends to be higher, meaning each daycare worker is responsible for multiple children. This environment offers less individual attention but can still be a valuable setting for socialization and learning when your child is older.
Which has more personalized care? Likely a nanny.
Socialization and Social Skills
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Nanny: While a nanny can supervise outings to parks and playdates, your infant will primarily receive one-on-one interaction. This level of individual attention can be great for building a secure bond, but offers fewer chances to develop social skills with other children. When weighing nanny vs daycare options, this one-on-one focus may be a pro or a con, depending on your socialization priorities for your infant.
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Daycare: In a daycare setting, your infant will have daily opportunities to interact with peers and older children, helping them develop essential social skills. This interaction fosters early modeling of communication, sharing, and adaptability, which is impactful for future learning and socialization.
Which offers more socialization? Likely daycare.
Flexibility and Schedule
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Nanny: Nannies offer unparalleled flexibility, often working around your weekly hours and specific needs. If you require evening and weekend care, coverage for holidays, or have a regular schedule that varies week to week, a nanny can adapt to your lifestyle. They may also help with household chores or provide light housekeeping, adding convenience for busy parents.
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Daycare: Most daycares operate on a fixed schedule, which may not accommodate last-minute late pickups, holiday coverage, or extended hours. Some family daycares offer part-time daycare options, which can be helpful if you don’t need full-time care but still want a structured environment for your infant. If you’re debating between nanny vs. daycare, this scheduling flexibility could be a deciding factor.
Which offers more schedule flexibility? Likely a nanny.
Additional Considerations
- Health and Safety: When considering nanny vs daycare, it’s important to note that a nanny reduces your child’s exposure to germs. While daycare settings provide strict health and safety protocols, there are inevitable outbreaks of contagious childhood illnesses. A nanny may also agree to care for your sick infant, while a daycare will send them home immediately.
- Development: Nannies can focus on your infant’s childhood education and developmental milestones, while daycares offer a structured curriculum that helps children learn in a group setting.
- Monitoring: Some parents install a nanny cam for added peace of mind when hiring a nanny. Daycare facilities usually have security measures to ensure all children’s safety.
Related: The Pros and Cons of Daycare Revealed by Studies
Choosing the Best Care for Your Infant – Nanny vs Daycare
Deciding between a nanny or daycare for your infant isn’t easy, but knowing your priorities can help guide your decision. Whether it’s the affordability of child care centers, a nanny’s one-on-one care, or a daycare’s social benefits, the best option depends on your family’s needs.
Ready to find the perfect fit for your infant’s care?
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